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Giving Up and Letting Go

2/22/2015

When you're in love with someone, the world seems so small. Nothing matters, but the object of your affection.

You lose sight of everything, but them. And lose yourself in the process.

You need to realize when it's time to hold on and fight harder, and when it's time to give up and move on.

One of the hardest things in life is giving up on something you can't go a day without thinking about. Giving up on the one thing that can truly make you happy.

But sometimes that's the only option.

Love hurts, it can make you feel dead inside, like you're drowning but you just won't die.

When it hurts to love someone, maybe its time to let them go.

Love is one true form of happiness, it can brighten up your life, but it can also be the cause of your pain.

Just because you've chosen to give up and let go at the moment, doesn't mean your weak. It means you realize that you're fighting a losing battle.

You can't make someone love you, it just doesn't work like that.

Love takes time, and sometimes all it takes is you giving up, for them to realize they need you, the way you needed them.

Love can only hurt you, if you give it the power to.So be strong, be smart.

Know when loving someone is worth the heart break, and when you should give up the losing battle.

If it's meant to be, nothing will come in the way of true love.

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#1. Chuck & Blair:
Chuck and Blair are by far the greatest Gossip Girl Couple. They loved each other so much, it scared them. All the games and the schemes only made them fall for each other even more. That day at Victrola truly changed their lives for the better, they realized that maybe the future that is laid out in front of you isn't the one you're meant to take. They had a bunch of bumps along the way, but they always manged to find their way back to each other, because they truly had a great love. They complete each other and were meant to be.

#2. Serena & Dan

#3. Nate & Blair

#4. Nate & Jenny

#5. Dan & Blair

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Unrequited Love Quotes

4/1/2014

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Unrequited Love, The most painful Love of all.

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What NOT to do when you like someone.

3/12/2014

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When you like someone, you want to try and get them to become your Boyfriend or Girlfriend. That's never gonna happen if they file a restraining order against you!

Here is my list of things not to do when you like someone.

1. DO NOT, reply to a text they send you the second you get it. That's creepy, It's like all you were doing was staring at your phone, waiting for it to ring (even if you probably were) Wait at least 5 minuets to reply to the first text, and a minuet to reply to any texts you receive afterwards.

2. Don't get your friend to tell them you like them. I know it seems like a good idea at first, but it's not. They don't wanna hear from your friend that you like them, it makes you seem like a scared little school girl. Be brave, if you want them to know tell them yourself.

3. Don't stalk them. There's a big line between looking at someone's Facebook profile and following them to their house. If you feel the need to stalk them, you're a little to obsessed and should maybe see a therapist.

4. Don't get lost in the Friend Zone! I know you have to be their friend before they start to like you, but don't be their best friend. They'll start to see you as 'one of the guys' and not as girlfriend material.

5. Don't get on his friends bad side. No guy is going to date a girl his friends hate, it just won't happen. Be the girl his friends love, they'll convince him to ask you out.

6. Don't run and hide every time you see him. If you never speak to him, how will he ever see how awesome and ask you out? Talk to him, smile, make him love talking and being around you.

7. DON'T ask him why he hasn't asked you out yet. There are so many ways he could answer that question, and it's likely to turn out bad. If he likes you, he'll ask you out eventually, you just have to wait.

8. Don't lie about yourself. Don't be someone you're not, he will find out. If he doesn't fall for who you are, maybe you aren't right for each other. Be yourself and the right guy will love you.

9. Don't be too clingy. Guys like the chase, and if you cling to them every time the call your name, what kind of chase is that? Be independent show them you're just fine without them, and they'll come running. Everyone wants something they can't have.

10. Don't let your world revolve around them. Crushes are called crushes for one reason. Thats how you feel when they don't feel the same. The less you think about them, the less it will hurt if it turns out they don't like you.

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Does Playing Hard to Get work?

3/10/2014

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Whenever I ask advice on how to get my crush to like me, one of the most common things I hear is 'Play Hard To Get.'

At first it seemed a little strange to me. I want him to like me, but why would he like me if I act like I don't like him?

Simple, GUYS LOVE THE CHASE.

Guys don't want an easy girl who's obsessed with them and would do anything for them. That's boring. Guys want a girl that makes them work for her, a girl who gives a great chase. Guys want a girl who makes them feel alive, not like they've been married for 20 years and are trapped.

Guys like to know that they worked to get their girl. What's better than being able to say that they caught the heart of a girl that no other guy could get?

I think Playing Hard To Get really works when you're first trying to get a guy to notice you.

If the guy you like is really hot, and has all the girls flirting with him, be the girl that doesn't. He'll start to wonder why you aren't crushing on him, and you'll become a challenge.

Everyone wants what they can't have. So if they can't have you, that just makes them want you even more.

The Harder you are to get, the longer the relationship. Why would they work so hard for something if they don't plan on making it last? They'd go to a bar and find an easy girl, but they must've wanted something real if they fought so hard to get you.

Playing hard to get works very well. It makes guys realize that you aren't just gonna wait around and be there when it's convenient for them.

Be hard to get, Not easy to forget.

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IS IT TIME TO WALK AWAY OR FIGHT HARDER?

2/16/2014

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When you have a crush on someone, the hardest thing to figure out is, when enough is enough. You've tried everything, and they just don't seem interested, so you have to choose, Walk away or Fight Harder.

Listen to your heart. How much does it hurt when you think of them with someone else? Do you feel like crying? Like your whole world is falling apart around you? Are you willing to walk away from them and feel that every day, until you get over them?

Ever wonder why they call it a crush? Maybe it's because without you realizing it, you're giving them the power to crush you, inside and out. You give them your heart, you'd do anything for them, but they wouldn't do the same. One word and they can crush the little fantasy you've created. They call it a crush because that's how you feel when they don't feel the same way.

You'll know when it's time to give up on them, you'll feel it. When the idea of them with someone else doesn't hurt you anymore, when you don't feel the need to impress them anymore. When you can look at them and not feel that magical feeling you used to get every time you saw them. Then it's time to give up.

People make the mistake of giving up to soon, and they just hurt themselves. They think that giving up on their crush will make the pain go away, but it doesn't. If you liked them so much, that it hurt, letting go of them is your greatest mistake. Love comes around once in a lifetime, and you'll regret it for the rest of your life if you let it slip through your fingers.

It takes time to fall for someone, so give them the time they need. If you love them, never give up, you may be surprised by what happens. Maybe they're already head over heels in love with you, but they don't think you are. I you give up, eventually so will they. It's better to try and fail then give up and never have a chance.

Maybe letting yourself fall for them was a mistake, and maybe it wasn't. But trust me, letting them go will be your greatest mistake.

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TRUE LOVE

2/7/2014

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Many people dream of finding true love, but they make a huge mistake. They try to hard, and try to make someone fall in love with them, but they shouldn't.

Love is weird, you can fall in love with people you never thought you'd fall for. Your heart wants who your heart wants. Love is a game of chance and you can't force it.

When you love someone, nothing else matters. 'Love doesn't make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.'

Love makes you do crazy things, makes you feel things you've never felt before and it scares you to death. It's not perfect, but it is worth it.

Love is the best feeling in the world. You may not be able to see it, but you sure can feel it. It's so hard to describe love, because unless you've felt it, you could never understand how wonderful it really is.

You don't choose who you fall in love with, your heart does. So don't force yourself to fall, when you meet the right person you'll fall on your own. Just pray they'll be there to catch you.

True love is when you trust someone with your heart, even though there is a chance they may break it. It never dies, it just gets stronger.

True Love is wanting what's best for someone, even if that's not you.

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ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND?

1/31/2014

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Having a crush on someone, and having a crush on your best friend are two totally different things. If you don't start dating your crush, you will eventually get over them, But how can you get over your best friend? You probably talk to them all the time!

When you're in love with your best friend, the first thing you do is deny it. They're your best friend and you don't wanna ruin it. So you look for as many reason you can, to say you're not in love with them, even when you know you are.

You'll feel different around them, you'll get butterfly's in you stomach every time you see them, and you'll feel lost whenever they aren't around.

Love is a beautiful thing, but you'll try to hide your feeling, because you're afraid they wont feel the same way.

If you're in love with your best friend, the best thing to do is to tell them. It's better to get it out and learn how they feel, before your feeling grow stronger for them.

If they reject you, it will really hurt at first, but you'll heal. At least you wont have any 'what if's' because you told him how you feel, and you know how he feels. It will be a little weird around you guys at first, but your friendship will eventually get back to how it was before.

If they feel the same way as you, you'll be overwhelmed will happiness. Your best friend is now your boyfriend, a perfect match. The best relationships always start out as friendships.

If you're in love with your best friend, do try to deny it. It's best to tell your self, 'I'm in love with them, what am I gonna do about it?'

If you can't admit it to your self, you're in for a lot of hurt and heart break when they start dating someone who's not you. Don't put your self through that, be true to your self. Maybe they like you too, but think it's so crazy that they never act on their feelings.

Love is crazy, and makes you do crazy things, but it's all worth it in the end.

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5 THINGS GUYS SHOULD KNOW ABOUT GIRLS

1/26/2014

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1. Girls can get a Crush in a second, Ever heard of love at first sight? Well every girl has, and even if they wont admit it, they believe in it. All it takes is one look, and a girl can tell weather she likes them or not.

2. Crushes can go away as fast as they came, A guy may be really cute and catch a girls eye, but if their personality is not that great, the girl may lose interest.

3. What you say and do can stay on their minds ALL day, Girls take things way to literal. If you say "i like your shirt", a whole bunch of things will run through their head. 'Does he like me?' 'Is he kidding?' 'Oh MY God, what was wrong with my shirt?' If you lend them your jacket, or hold open a door for them, they'll most likely never forget it.

4. Girls find guys who have a 'soft spot' REALLY attractive, Girls like guys who act all tough, but have a soft spot for them. Who doesn't wanna be the only one that knows that kind side of you? It makes girls feel like you really care about them, like you'll willing to do anything for just them.

5. Not all girls love shopping, Some girls absolutely HATE shopping. They can`t stand it, so they get their moms to buy their clothes. So never call a girl a shopaholic unless you see them at the mall everyday, then they have a problem.

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SINGLE VS RELATIONSHIP

1/23/2014

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I always ask myself this question, is it better being Single or being in a Relationship? So many people are in relationships now a days, that it's feels like the only way you can be 'happy' is if you are dating someone.

I think that's stupid. I find just as much happiness in being single, as I do when i'm in a happy relationship.

When your single you don't have to think about anyone but yourself. It's 'Me, Myself and I' against the world.
When your dating someone, you have to think about their feelings, and how what you do can affect them.

Single people can go to a party, get drunk, do whatever they want, and not feel guilty.
People in Relationships, have a harder time doing this, because they feel it isn't right to go to a party without telling their partner.

When you're single, you can openly flirt with people. You aren't tied down to anyone.
If you flirt while you're in a relationship, your partner will most likely get mad.

But that's not to say Relationships aren't good either, there are some perks to dating someone.

- You get to wear their clothes (Hats, sweaters)
- You have someone to hug
- Their friends are your friends (Unless they have no friends)
- You always have someone when you're feeling down

I guess it just depends on what you like. I LOVE being single, but that's probably because i haven't found the right person yet. When I do find them i'm sure my opinion will change :)

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Favorite Gossip Girl Couples

#2. Serena & Dan

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Unrequited Love Quotes

What NOT to do when you like someone.

Does Playing Hard to Get work?

IS IT TIME TO WALK AWAY OR FIGHT HARDER?

TRUE LOVE

ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND?

5 THINGS GUYS SHOULD KNOW ABOUT GIRLS

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